The couple reportedly met during the Christmas holidays in Colombia. Chiara was traveling through Cartagena with her sister Valentina and some friends when she crossed paths with Josè. Even though he’s Colombian, he’s no stranger to Italy—he moved there in 2014 to get his Master’s degree at the Politecnico di Milano.

This new romance comes after her brief relationship with Giovanni Tronchetti Provera ended (he reportedly went back to his wife). Before that, of course, was her very public marriage and breakup with Fedez. It seems Chiara has learned a lesson about keeping her private life off the internet. Unlike her past relationships, she is being very careful to keep this one away from social media.

Insiders say the connection between them is “obvious,” and part of the reason it’s working so well is that Josè isn’t part of the entertainment world. Even though they’ve already introduced each other to their families, don’t expect an official Instagram post anytime soon. For now, the 38-year-old influencer seems happy keeping her “new flame” to herself.